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Our book: I... Victim!

 

These are the chapters. Each of them has examples and stories diferent than those in the site:

  1. Introduction
  2. A couple of thoughts
  3. Do you live with an SPV?
  4. Character and/or persistent manipulative actions of an SPV
  5. When you ask her an innocent question or dare to differ from her points of view, does your SPV ‘decide’ to accuse you of being abusive? Does she ‘feel’ attacked, criticized, or pursued?
  6. An SPV demands… That is, she might ask for a favor, but expects the answer to be: yes!
  7. An SPV is always asking: what did I ever do to deserve this?
  8. They stumble or fall… so that… what?
  9. “Yeah, but…” as an essential part of SPVs’ vocabulary
  10. When they answer every question with: I think
  11. When they ‘answer’ a question… with another question
  12. They’d rather be ‘the other woman’ than a wife… unless…
  13. First thing in her head every morning: What do I want today? What do I need today to feed my hungry ego?
  14. They can’t live with the consequences…
  15. Behaviors and traits of SPVs
    • First of all, the look, the face - the expression!
    • The voice… the unique voice of an SPV
    • Stupidity is another ‘quality’
    • Laziness
    • They condemn, but…
    • They care about no one, zero, zip, nada!
    • Their excuses and motives… no common sense, of course!
    • They covet everything and everyone!
  16. SPV… Condition or desire?
  17. Are there second chances for an SPV?
  18. Do you have to talk or deal with an SPV?
  19. Are SPVs suicidal?
  20. Does an SPV believe in God?
  21. What could an SPV ‘trigger’ on her children?
  22. Could an SPV be your partner?
  23. When rules change
  24. An SPV in real life… Is there such a thing?
  25. The pattern of ‘perception’ in SPV life
  26. Incriminating an SPV… in her own habitat
  27. When it’s okay to be a victim… but…
  28. Conclusion… that is to say, THE END!
  29. It is THE END, I mean it!
  30. Terminology
  31. Go grab a Latte and keep on reading then…
  32. Can an SPV change?
    • For instance… In Her Shoes…
    • For instance… Dr. House MD…
  33. Does your SPV say she needs to change?
    • How to encourage an SPV to surrender her ‘victimhood’
    • Steps to stop being a ‘victim’
  34. This is not THE END anymore…


 
 
 

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