Ever heard of those called Narcissists and/or Sociopaths? 

I believe they are the cruelest, most violent people I've ever come across... and I believe those fancy names provide them with an excuse… some sort of a 'disease' they cannot get rid of, therefore it'll NEVER be their fault!

I call them Self-Proclaimed Victims (SPVs) and I refuse to give them an excuse for their behavior.  I don’t care about their needs!  I care about the needs of those they abuse and leave behind all hurting and feeling worthless… I care about those who need to say ENOUGH!

In my stories and rhetoric you will find that I’ve had my share of experiences with SPVs… and I got up and reclaimed my right to have an opinion and claimed back my soul!

I 've to begin by telling you that our past might leave its mark, but it doesn't have to negatively define who we are today!

What started one late afternoon as some sort of rehearsal to my detox, today it ends with a new beginning… a fresh new start of a freed spirit… free from pressure, suffocation, and an aching heart.

I can tell you that speaking out helps… but what helps even more is to leave the past behind, where it belongs… there, far and distant.  It’s not important, unless you want it to be.

It’s so easy to do.  All you gotta do is want it.  You’ve got to want to see into an inspired future… to feel your past no more!

We take from the past what’s good to improve our future… don’t look back… look ahead and let go… imagine new horizons, new people, new things… a new life… without hatred or seeking revenge… look at it with enthusiasm for what’s to come.

I encourage you to say: Yeah… so what?  I encourage you to experience a ‘nos importaaa? ®’ (Spanish to express 'so what!' or ‘who cares?’) about some past that has hurt you to create new concepts and ideas with a barefoot mind… Barefoot Thinking! ©… delight yourself with every step you take onto that promising future you’ve got ahead… Free your mind and step into your own life… take control!

Do you know how? Should I tell you how? Read the stories and tell me if you find something that sounds familar...

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Repeating yourself will not change the fact that you are wrong! - L. Pettersen