They have proved me right over and over again. They lose an argument and… ZUCK! ...you feel the blow! Right on your face!
When SPVs give in during an argument they are sort of an oppressive government in communist territory under economic crisis… get it? They strike you and punish you - either physically or psychologically - and, in the end, they expel you from their ‘habitat’ pointing their finger at you as ‘conspirator’ against them, as a hostile witness.
If you ever perceive that an SPV looks passive and quiet… Beware! Because that is when they ponder their revenge for feeling exposed and distressed by your shrewd, correct language when defending your point of view… to them everything is a plot against them.
SPVs can’t stand someone with opinions of their own; other points of view… they can’t stand individuality! They seem to think that the first amendment was written specifically for them… not for the rest of us mortals too.
When SPVs feel that they cannot handle you by themselves with only wit, they go out to get a couple of their cronies from their ‘herd’ of followers; manipulates them into thinking that her/his ‘cause’ is theirs too… to form a squad… yes, to top it all up, they like gangs!
If your personal SPV stays quiet and still, don’t believe for a second that you’ve made progress… don’t think she/he has granted you the point… Noooo, a new act of transformation is about to take place, she/he makes you believe that she/he has changed… when it’s only a renewal!
Once more the SPV escapes reality and the result is a new stage weaving plots and manipulations to, once again, get the devotion and acclaim they strive for from their ‘herd’ of followers.
Remember that SPVs do not love anybody but themselves. They endure due to the silence of those who surround them… not out of love.
My thoughts on the matter:
Since we’ve made it to the finish line… I can now tell you that, in order for you to change, you really need to want to… Every time I hear someone presenting himself to the world as: “I do want to change, but…” I see someone who’s not committed and who is saying that he cannot make it on his own…
You don’t need a freaking crowd of friends, doctors, or spiritual guides to change! In my personal opinion it only comes to show a lack of will.
You gotta want it. The important thing is the ‘can’ here… She can… You can… We can… it’s enough to wish for it to make it happen… where there’s a will, there’s a way… No one can walk our walk… No one can tell us how, when or where to set off walking… You can do it! |