(SPV = Self-Proclaimed Victim)

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There I was, minding my own business, quiet and still. Yeah, well, nothing lasts forever!  There came the beginning of the end, the last actions that opened my eyes.

One late afternoon, not long ago, I got rid of the “S” as in stupid that I had, firmly, carved on my forehead!  I came out, from under my little stone, and decided that I had had enough, that I was sick and tired of my SPVs, I’d reached my limit… I hit rock bottom, so to speak!  I started to mull over a plan: My Plan B.  It’s been like taking a load off of my shoulders and I’ve enjoyed every-single-second of it. 

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This is my madness. This is my ‘Plan B’.  This is my chance to say, in written and without interruptions, what I’ve kept buried in my heart for so long.  Today… it’s payback time!

Bye, bye stone!  SPVs Hello!

Someone once said that there are two ways to find difficulties:  either you alter the difficulties or you alter yourself to find them.   Hmm… tough choice when it comes to dealing with SPVs.

It’s my turn!  I dust my memories and ‘sting’ those who’ve had the exclusive use of the word: the Self-proclaimed victim (SPV).  This is not about them, it’s not about you… it’s about me.  This is my intellectual detox!

I write… I like to… for when I do it I make sure my words remain intact and no one can change or manipulate them… unlike them, the SPVs, that go through life spreading their inconsistencies and gossip.

Will they be able to shush me?  Hmm, well I’ll have to say as Greg Gutfeld:  Short answer: No… Long answer: Noooooooooo.

Welcome to the club to those of you who think my words are harsh or that I’m made of ice, therefore I notify:

Nos importaaa?®  (Spanish for: Do we care!?)… Nop, I don’t care!

What is important here is wether I can help you, by reading my experiences, to discover your personal SPV… help you wake up from that deep sleep and help free yourself from the ‘herd’ of followers and/or ‘captive’ audience (friends and family of SPVs) you are probably sharing cosmos with today!  This space is mine, only mine… and yours… if you’ll let me…

It was that one late afternoon I decided to end it all… that’s when it all began and… It’s my turn now!

My thoughts on the matter:

I guess you’ve already realized just how many times I’ve said that I was the one making a decision in this rhetorical beginning of it all… I was the one who decided to come out from under my little stone; I decided to speak about it, I decided to take of the ‘S’ as in stupid… I decided!

And I’ll live with the consequences.  In this case, my consequences have been good.  There was a time in my life when I decided that keeping my mouth shut without tackling cruelty and violence from those around me was as if I were there accomplice… there’s this saying in Spanish that goes something like… the one holding the cow’s paw is just as guilty as the one killing it…

I’m aware that telling an SPV about what she made me feel or live will do nothing for her… but it’s made ME feel good… it gave me back what - at one point in time - she’d taken from me… it gave me back my feeling good about myself!

To those who call it revenge… well, let me ask you something… How can it be revenge when you are speaking out against the cruelty or violence against a child?  How can it be revenge to call a thief by his name? THIEF!

Can we leave the past behind?  Of course we can!  If what you need is to forget, then forget… if what you need is to speak your mind, do it… whatever it is that rids you of all those negative feelings to be able to take the next step into a completely brilliant and colorful new beginning.

All I’ve written is there to make a point… without a story or a rhetoric there wouldn’t be a way for me to tell you that it can be done!  It is by way of telling you a story that I can suggest what you can do… I can suggest how you can light your path.

Every book on self-help is just that… SELF-help… you can do it by trying someone else’s shoes on.

You can be happy… yes you can give that first step and I’m not about to stop telling you that since I’m the best example for it… I decided to live in the light.  I didn’t try to live my life without SPVs… I decided to live it in spite of them!

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